Inhabiting the Liminal: Notes from the Spaces Beyond Hierarchy
Where hierarchy unravels, relational futures can take root.

Inhabiting the Liminal: Notes from the Spaces Beyond Hierarchy
Something's breaking down. You can feel it everywhere—in meeting rooms where people tune out regularly, in organisations wasting talent, in the exhaustion we all pretend is normal. The old structures are still there, still functioning, but the faith in them is quietly dying.
Something else is stirring in response. It's not a movement with a manifesto or a new management theory. It's more like... people remembering things. Old ways of being together. New experiments that actually work. Quiet rebellions happening in the margins.
This piece is about that in-between space—where we're in the process of letting go of what's dying without knowing exactly what's being born. I want to bring attention to what's already growing at the edges. Some of it is ancient wisdom we forgot. Some of it is brand new. All of it challenges the idea that we need someone in charge to make things work.
Let us refrain from looking for solutions (old world dying) and instead listen for signals (new world emerging). Small ones, mostly. The kind that happen in relationships, in experiments most people haven't heard of. They matter because they show us we don't have to keep building the same pyramids as it were our only given choice.
The Story We Tell Ourselves
To be blunt. We've been sold a story, and we bought it completely. It goes like this: Without hierarchy, there's chaos. Without someone in charge, everything falls apart. We need leaders and followers, bosses and workers, people who make decisions and people who follow them.
It's a compelling story because it's everywhere. We learned it in school (teacher knows, student doesn't). We live it at work (boss decides, employee complies). We see it in politics (leaders lead, citizens follow). It feels like common sense.
But what if this story persists not because it's true, but because it's useful? Useful to people at the top, obviously. But also comforting to those of us who'd rather not take responsibility for messy, collaborative decision-making. It's easier to complain about bad leadership than to figure out how to lead together.
The story has reached its expiration date, though. It is exploiting and extracting. Too many people have worked for terrible bosses, seen the ecological devastation, watched good ideas get lost in power dynamics. All while those at the top continue to expand their privileges and their wealth. We're starting to see that hierarchy isn't holding us together—it's holding us in place.
Still, we struggle to imagine alternatives. That's how stories that serve power work. They limit our imagination of what's possible.
So let me invite you to set that story down for a moment. Just temporarily. And let's look around at what's already happening in the spaces where people never asked for, or have stopped waiting for, permission to organise differently.
What we'll find isn't neat or scalable. But it's real. And it's showing us glimpses of what becomes possible when we stop clinging to what we deep inside know is broken.
What's Growing at the Edges
At the margins—in small organisations, community groups, and experiments most of us probably never heard of—different patterns are emerging. They're not trying to replace hierarchy with another system. They're remembering and creating ways of being and working together that hierarchy made us forget.
I decided to take a more proper look at the space beyond hierarchy and 12 different practices showed themselves to me that I’d like to share. There are plenty more, which is amazing in itself. We really are stuck in a story… Anyway, I've organised these 12 practices into loose themes, but they blur into each other. That's part of their beauty—they resist being packaged into neat categories.
Making Decisions Without Bosses
In a lot of places, people are experimenting with shared decision-making. Leadership doesn't disappear fully, but it moves around. It's held by whoever is closest to the work, most affected by the decision, or has the most to offer in that moment.
I've watched Sociocracy circles make decisions that would have taken weeks in traditional hierarchies. They use "consent-based decision making"—which sounds fancy but basically means "does anyone have a serious objection?" If not, they move forward. If so, they work with the objection until they find something everyone can live with. It's faster than consensus, more inclusive than autocracy. (Read more: Sociocracy For All)
Quaker meetings have been doing something similar for centuries. They sit in silence until someone feels moved to speak. They don't debate or vote. They listen—to each other and for something deeper. Somehow, despite having no official leaders, they make decisions that stick. (Read more: Quaker.org)
Even some blockchain communities (the ones not obsessed with getting rich) are experimenting with governance principles called DAO (decentralised autonomous organisations) that doesn't rely on CEOs or boards. It's messy and sometimes fails spectacularly. But it's also producing innovations that surprise everyone, including the participants. (Read more: Wikipedia: DAO)
Several Youth climate movements work without fixed leaders. Roles shift over time. Ideas move sideways. They organise through relationships, not ranks. (Read more: Mass Audubon Youth Climate Leadership Program)
These approaches can both be faster and slower than top-down decision-making. Sometimes less efficient. But they're practicing something we've forgotten: how to think together and build agency, instead of just following orders.
Justice That Heals Instead of Punishes
The old model of justice comes from above. Judge, jury, punishment. Someone does wrong, someone with authority makes it right. But what if that doesn't actually work? What if punishment just creates more harm?
Restorative justice circles brings everyone affected by harm into a circle. The person who caused harm, the person who was harmed, their communities. Instead of asking "How do we punish this?" they ask "How do we repair this?" It's uncomfortable. It takes time. But people walk away changed instead of just sentenced. (Read more: Mediators Beyond Borders)
I've seen that disability justice networks model this differently too. They start from the assumption that we're all interdependent—that needing help isn't failure, it's human. When someone harms the community, instead of kicking them out, they ask: "What support do you need to do better?" It's not permissive. It's just realistic about how change actually happens. (Read more: Disability Justice Network)
These approaches ask difficult things of us. To slow down when we want to react. To listen when we want to judge. To be changed by what we hear. But they're building accountability that doesn't require someone to be in charge of dispensing justice.
A Deeper Relating to Land
Some of the most profound challenges to hierarchy happen nowhere near boardrooms. They happen in gardens, forests, kitchens. They come from people remembering how to live with the land instead of on top of it.
Regenerative farmers are having conversations with their soil. They're not managing it—they're partnering with it. They're discovering that when you stop trying to control natural systems, they often become more productive, not less. (Read more: NRDC: Regenerative Agriculture 101)
Indigenous communities that never fully lost their governance traditions are showing what it looks like when power flows through relationships instead of org charts. In matrilineal governance systems, authority comes through lineage and care, not conquest and competition. In Ubuntu-inspired councils decisions aren’t about control—they’re about restoring balance in the web of life. (Read more: Clan Mothers Healing Village, Ubuntu Communications Council)
When disasters hit and official systems fail, mutual aid networks emerge spontaneously. No one's in charge, but somehow food gets distributed, people find shelter, communities take care of each other. It's not charity—it's people recognizing they're in this together. (Read more: Mutual Aid Hub)
These aren't new experiments. They're ancient ways of being that modernity tried to erase. The fact that they survived tells us something important about their resilience.
Following Rhythms That Don’t Need to be Managed
There's also a kind of leadership that doesn't announce itself. You feel it in your body, in the seasons, in the pauses between words. These practices don't tell us what to do—they help us remember how to listen.
People doing somatic work with groups help them make decisions through sensing rather than thinking. Through breath, movement, stillness. They're discovering that bodies often know things minds haven't figured out yet. Authority in these spaces isn't claimed; it's recognised. (Read more: Way of Belonging: What is Ecosomatics)
With collective parenting parents are sharing the work of raising children across webs of trusted adults. Kids grow up with multiple sources of wisdom and care. No single adult carries all the responsibility or authority. Everyone learns from everyone. (Read more: Medium: Collective Parenting)
These practices remind us that not all power needs a microphone. Agency grows quietly, through shared meals, long walks, and trust built in ordinary moments.
Staying with the Messiness
None of these examples are perfect. They fail sometimes. They get co-opted by people trying to turn them into the next big thing. Fundamentally they remain fragile, underfunded, or invisible to the systems they're quietly subverting.
But they're breathing with a different logic. They're signals of a shift from separation to interdependence, from control to participation, from hierarchy to something harder to name but easier to feel.
To walk away from hierarchy isn't just rejecting a structure. It's stepping into a different way of relating. One that moves at the pace of trust. One that makes room for mistakes, contradictions, and things that haven't fully formed yet.
These practices shouldn’t be mindlessly copied and pasted. They have to be grown from the ground up, adapted to local conditions, tended by people who understand that changing how we organise is really about changing how we are with each other.
And that takes practice. Lots and lots of it if we are to break away from the story of hierarchy.
Tending What's Emerging and Not-Yet
This moment doesn't need another five-step plan for saving the world. It needs a different kind of attention—one that's willing to stay with the unfinished, the imperfect, the not-yet-ready.
The shift away from hierarchy isn't something that will be announced on billboards or ads on TikTok. It happens in small gestures: how we make decisions, share responsibility, move through conflict, ask for help, raise children, tend land, sit with each other in silence.
It happens when we stop performing from the mindsets of certainty and start showing up with aliveness and vulnerability to the beautiful mess of being human together.
Maybe you're already part of this shift. Maybe you're questioning power in small ways, listening longer than feels comfortable, letting go of control in favour of care. Maybe you're tending something that doesn't make sense to the world that's ending.
Keep at it. It's slow work. It won't always feel coherent. But it matters.
The old structures haven't collapsed yet. In many ways, they still dominate and are pulling at us. But we can build resilience by knowing something else is already growing beyond them. I believe we're being called to inhabit the spaces between worlds—to be with what's emerging, cultivate what's promising, and respectfully compost what no longer serves.


What a masterpiece of writing in its field, hats off, Jan 🎩